An inspiring quote from an inspiring person

How do Adora BatBrat dress at home? 

"The same way as I do outside my home. Not festival clothes obviously, but "standard" goth wear. I have a rule (to my husband): If you feel the need to wear couch potatoe clothes - wear it to work, and the nice clothes at home. It’s me you are supposed to dress up for. Dress like every day is a party day! Pretty clothes are of no use in the closet - or when you’re dead. Over the top is how I like it. You know, people sometimes accuse others of "trying to hard", I think to not trying to hard is just lame. We have one life (althought I have a longer than usual since I’m vampire) and out of respect to that maximize every day. You deserve it! "

This is dedicated to all the girls. It's necessary to take care of ourselves, with healty food, rutine, etc. Just wear your pretty clothes as if it's your last day. We have to die beautifully, isn't it? ;)

There's no need to wear pretty clothes for other people or special days, as Adora BatBrat said, everyday is a party day and you deserve it. 

Do it for yourselves, everyone is beautiful since themselves noticed that they are.

11/08/2012

Birds want to swim

Fishes want to fly

When will we be happy?

Human feelings - Hate

I believe that all of us have wished someone to disappear along our lives. But, has someone thought if we were really going to be happy with that person's absence?

I want to answer sincerely: we might be even emptier if our evil wish is fulfilled.

The person you hate must be a person close to you or close to the people around you otherwise you won't care about what he/she says or does. He/She might be a person you think is superior than you in some aspects: he/she might has a nicer body or is more intelligent than you, or maybe he/she is richer than you but doesn't appreciate his/her possesions, etc.Maybe he/she hurts you violently but you can do nothing, all of us know that sometimes verbal violence is much crueler than the physical's.

Whatever it is, the truth is that you think your hate won't go away if this person doesn't disappear.

This person may be your parents, your brothers, your friends or your enemies or even someone you haven't met before but means a threat to you. Who ever he/she is, you have to think carefully before you make your wish. This he/she may has got family and friends who love and need him/her,therefore he/she is important as you are. He/She is a human too, which means he/she is allowed to make mistakes. Maybe he/she hurted you in the past, but I believe he/she'll realize someday how stupid it was harming the others. 

What I really want to say is WE HAVE TO LEARN TO FORGIVE.

"Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself, it is a release from the burden of anger and pain. When you choose to forgive, you choose to live in the present and the future instead of the past."

When you forgive, you start to heal and release yourself. Only when your hate is gone you will be able to feel inner peace.

Though it isn't easy to succed, but it is not impossible. 

Try hard, because it is really worthy.

Try it for your own happiness.